krosdungeon asked:
@krosdungeon Thank you, darlin.. you know how to bring a smile to a girl’s face without even being in the same room. I can only imagine how much better you are in person. *winks*
Live, Love, And Grab a Snow Cone on Hot Summer Days
Ginger
A Daddy had a little girl, her skin was white as snow
So Daddy spanked her little ass and her cheeks began to glow
(via melbournedominant)
LOVE!!
😂nodding rapidly😂
Lol
For all you girls on my “Naughty Girl’s of Tumblr” list, this will be me at your house on Christmas Eve!
~ @naughtysanta
Thinking of @thegingerpowers
Thanks @crsnight ! Does this mean I can expect a special treat under my tree this year from you? lol
“I want someone who initiates sex every once in a while.”
“I don’t want some doormat with no opinions.”
“I want to be with someone passionate, not submissive.”
I see phrases like this all the time when people reject having a submissive partner. And I’ll admit—once upon a time, I rejected my own submissiveness based on the same misunderstandings. So let me try to clear it up.
When I say I’m submissive, it doesn’t mean I’m a robot awaiting instructions. It doesn’t mean that I’m dormant until a Dominant’s needs and desires activate me. It doesn’t mean that I expect my Dominant to take all the actions while I merely respond.
I am submissive, but I am not passive. I am strong-willed, passionate, and energetic in pursuit of what fulfills me.
I initiate sex with my Dominant. It’s different from how a Dominant initiates, but it’s not all that hard to read. I will straddle their lap and nibble their neck and talk about what a needy little girl I am. I will say that I’ve been thinking all day of the way they taste. I will lay their favorite implement on the bed with a sticky note that just says, “Please?” I will strip and kneel, and then I’ll beg for what I crave.
I have strong sexual desires and needs, and I share them openly. But I don’t dictate what happens or when. And however my Dominant chooses for me to serve, I will pour all my energy into it. I will curl up between their legs for hours, lost in the joy of exploring them. I will moan and whimper and push back against them as they use me. I will ride them as long as my poor cardio fitness holds out. Being submissive does not make me quiet or passive. I am deeply passionate and completely unafraid to show the one who owns me.
And it’s not just in the bedroom. I have strong opinions about what I think is right and how things should be done, and I will 100% make those opinions known. But with the right partner—someone I can trust to put my needs first—I will defer to them on the final decision. With the right partner, I accept that they may make a decision I disagree with, but they won’t make a decision that harms me. And sometimes I do disagree. Vigorously. Sometimes a decision will make me angry enough to want to shoot lasers from my eyeballs. But if I submit to this person, then I trust them to do what’s right for both of us, and for the relationship. So I make my feelings known, and then I actively choose to follow.
I am submissive, but I am no doormat. I know exactly who I am and what I want, and I am unafraid to share it. My submissiveness is full of boldness and fire and passion. Never, ever mistake me for passive.
Sipping coffee in front of a humming, ticking wood stove is conducive to reflection. It suddenly came to me, the answer to why I have this strange, atavistic love of fire, specifically fire as a source of heat. It’s because there’s effort involved. We live in a world where we can press a magic button and in minutes our home is filled with warmth from end to end. With fire – whether wood stove, camp fire, or fire pit – warmth is earned. We’ve constructed a world for ourselves where we never have to work for life’s simple gifts. In the process, we’ve lost any sense of the value of those gifts. When you have to stand in front of the wood stove to get dressed, the simple gift of warmth stops being a “right” and becomes, in a sense, a victory.
“We choose to do these things not because they are easy, but because they are hard.”
And the more difficult a task is to complete the more you value the finished product. This works for relationships as well. *smiles*
zardoz2469 asked:
If you’re going to use them, Extra Long is definitely the way to go….
Anonymous asked:
instructor144 answered:
Yes, you would.
